What 40-something me has learned from the 20-something me

judgement blog3I finally got the opportunity to go on my vacation and it was absolutely magical! From the travel to Miami, the cruise itself and coming home, everything was stress-free and just what I needed. The weather was perfect and I even lost weight while eating everything the ship had to offer including my midnight pizza run. I spoiled myself, no doubt but I deserve it! I work hard and I take care of a lot of people outside of myself. I am a busy woman! I am not perfect, by any means, but I am pushing forward in my pursuit to being successful enough to go where I want when I want. After being on vacation and getting the time I needed to clear my head and make new goals, I am motivated to be a little more fabulous than I was before my vacation. I am setting new goals and chasing them down!

I love to travel and I am working hard so that I can get more opportunities to see the world. I love seeing as well as learning about other places. There is a big world out there and I want to see as much of it as I can before my body calls it quits. At this time in my life, I am trying to see more, do more, and become more. I mean, why not? What else is there to do? After visiting the Western Caribbean, I want to see more! I want to live my best life. I know that it will include lots of travel. judgement blog2

We have to look at our future while we are “middle -aged” just as we did when we were in our twenties. We were “fearless and we knew it all”. We were not afraid to try anything, at least once. When we conquered one thing, we would have the confidence to push forward to the next thing. Wanting to do more and go bigger. I need this attitude in my life today!

What I am learning as I look back and reflect on the fresh attitude that I had back then is that being and having perfection in my life is not possible. But I will say that being who I really am and doing things that I absolutely love in the company of those that love me is the bomb! People will celebrate me, hate me, I am going to mess up (plenty I am sure), but be sure that you know that I will not stop moving. Forward motion only for this girl.


Short, sweet and to the point!




2 Comments Add yours

  1. Joyce Lugo says:

    Straight and to the point.

    1. dgsunshyne91 says:

      Yes ma’am!

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