We spend time reminding ourselves that we should trust and love ourselves. Know your worth and be confident, sexy and all. Do you know that there is nothing wrong with you when you fall short? I am so serious. It is really ok to not feel ok every once in a while if what you…
Tag: self-reflection
It’s My Birthday and I Deserve It!
Happy birthday to me! So excited about year 48. Yes, I said my age and I really don’t have a problem with it. When I hit my 40s, I was weird. More excited! It was my 30s that made me cry and say, “woe is me” daily. I don’t really know why. They just…
Time to Trust Yourself
Have you been in a relationship for some time and it doesn’t seem to be moving forward? Not just a relationship, but a “ship” of any kind. It is just not progressing in the right direction for some reason. Have you thought about sticking with it? Maybe you thought about letting go because it no…
How To Become An Energy Maker
There are a few sayings that just don’t sit well with me. One of them is “It is what it is” and another is, “I am going to give them the same energy that they give me.” For me, this means that someone can control my energy, for that matter, my day! I am just…
You vs. You: Second Chances
When was the last time you gave yourself a second chance? I ask this because I never really thought about it until recently. A second chance to find your purpose, overcome fears and insecurities, or even loving yourself? Do you or have you done that? If you are anything like me, you have given people…
How To Own Your Next Year
Man, so much can happen in a year! 52 weeks…365 days…8,760 hours. Yes, I would say that is a lot of time. It could look overwhelming when you see it written down. I must say, when I see these numbers, I am thinking about it as one of my greatest gifts. Time…is a gift! Things…
Leave the Past in the Past
We all have a past. A past that many of us don’t want to think about. One thing we need to stop doing is looking back at it with shame or regret. I look back at the break ups, the times I said yes when I really wanted to say no or the times when…
Filters Necessary!
We cannot always control the things that happen outside of us. There are so many variables that are at play. So trying to control our health, wealth, successes or relationships will literally make us crazy at times. Every single thing can be done “right” and we still not get the outcomes we desire. We can…
Unmasking Humor
Humor is the quality of being amusing or funny. It is also when we comply to the wishes of someone in order to keep them content, no matter how unreasonable the wishes. There aren’t too many things that we can find humorous in this life today. The world is fighting a few pandemics at once….