Have you ever heard this one before? “Girl, you are so crazy!” What about saying to yourself, “I don’t want to look crazy.” Someone may have called you crazy before. You may have spoken to yourself in this way a time or two. Thought you were crazy for caring too much or being a…
Tag: self-reflection
The Impact of Spring Cleaning Again!
As I have said in a previous blog post or 10, I am spring cleaning my life. This has been a chore and a half. Picture this. Think about the last time you moved. Do you remember all of the stuff that you had not seen since the last time you moved? Yes, all of…
You Have Feelings Too!
We spend time reminding ourselves that we should trust and love ourselves. Know your worth and be confident, sexy and all. Do you know that there is nothing wrong with you when you fall short? I am so serious. It is really ok to not feel ok every once in a while if what you…
It’s My Birthday and I Deserve It!
Happy birthday to me! So excited about year 48. Yes, I said my age and I really don’t have a problem with it. When I hit my 40s, I was weird. More excited! It was my 30s that made me cry and say, “woe is me” daily. I don’t really know why. They just…
Time to Trust Yourself
Have you been in a relationship for some time and it doesn’t seem to be moving forward? Not just a relationship, but a “ship” of any kind. It is just not progressing in the right direction for some reason. Have you thought about sticking with it? Maybe you thought about letting go because it no…
How To Become An Energy Maker
There are a few sayings that just don’t sit well with me. One of them is “It is what it is” and another is, “I am going to give them the same energy that they give me.” For me, this means that someone can control my energy, for that matter, my day! I am just…
You vs. You: Second Chances
When was the last time you gave yourself a second chance? I ask this because I never really thought about it until recently. A second chance to find your purpose, overcome fears and insecurities, or even loving yourself? Do you or have you done that? If you are anything like me, you have given people…
How To Own Your Next Year
Man, so much can happen in a year! 52 weeks…365 days…8,760 hours. Yes, I would say that is a lot of time. It could look overwhelming when you see it written down. I must say, when I see these numbers, I am thinking about it as one of my greatest gifts. Time…is a gift! Things…
Leave the Past in the Past
We all have a past. A past that many of us don’t want to think about. One thing we need to stop doing is looking back at it with shame or regret. I look back at the break ups, the times I said yes when I really wanted to say no or the times when…