What do YOU want? When I was asked this question it threw me for a loop. Why though? I am living life everyday, doing things that I feel I have to do and making room for what I feel I want to do. The outcomes of those experiences can be great. Other times, they are…
Tag: loving yourself
How to Choose Your Word of the Year
Wow, here we are at the close of another year! This one seems to have gone faster than the one before! So much has happened that sharing it all in one post would make one’s head explode. I will spare you the details then. All in all, there were many lessons learned, many tears shed…
Stand In Your Superpower
We all have a superpower. Yes, even you! I really believe that we all do. Every single one of us. We all have been given gifts that are unique to us. I sometimes feel like mine can be a gift and a curse at times. What about you? Getting over that feeling will help you…
Seriously, Am I Not “People” Too?
When you say that you are a people pleaser, are you speaking about yourself as well? It is nice to be there for people and be someone that others can count on but not to your detriment. People pleasing has been frustrating and hurtful for me. when it comes to people pleasing though, Am I…
Am I Being Toxic To Myself?
We are always hearing people talking about toxic people and how we need to rid ourselves of them. We are good at giving that advice to others. There are many conversations had about how they leave us feeling drained emotionally and we begin to doubt ourselves when around them. I have been spending a lot…
Life is Just Different…Live Anyway
This season has brought a lot of lows. We have had to sit with a lot of bad things…some really frustrating things. There have been a lot of hurtful things and people that have come to the forefront. Life is just different. Very different. I have to say that in all of the things we…
It Is Not Crazy…..Embrace It Anyway!
Have you ever heard this one before? “Girl, you are so crazy!” What about saying to yourself, “I don’t want to look crazy.” Someone may have called you crazy before. You may have spoken to yourself in this way a time or two. Thought you were crazy for caring too much or being a…
The Impact of Spring Cleaning Again!
As I have said in a previous blog post or 10, I am spring cleaning my life. This has been a chore and a half. Picture this. Think about the last time you moved. Do you remember all of the stuff that you had not seen since the last time you moved? Yes, all of…
You Have Feelings Too!
We spend time reminding ourselves that we should trust and love ourselves. Know your worth and be confident, sexy and all. Do you know that there is nothing wrong with you when you fall short? I am so serious. It is really ok to not feel ok every once in a while if what you…
It’s My Birthday and I Deserve It!
Happy birthday to me! So excited about year 48. Yes, I said my age and I really don’t have a problem with it. When I hit my 40s, I was weird. More excited! It was my 30s that made me cry and say, “woe is me” daily. I don’t really know why. They just…