What do YOU want? Really….

What do YOU want? When I was asked this question it threw me for a loop. Why though? I am living life everyday, doing things that I feel I have to do and making room for what I feel I want to do. The outcomes of those experiences can be great. Other times, they are…

Why He/She Won’t Change For You

…But I can change him/her! He/she will change for me… I know I have heard this before. May have even said it before. You meet someone, spend time with them and you start to see things that you really cannot live with. But he/she is so cute! Super sexy! Instead of moving on because right…

You Are Worthy Of Every Good Thing

A lot of people spend time beating themselves up for the mistakes they have made ever as adults. With those thoughts looming, they probably cannot see their worthiness being present the way it was when they were younger. If this is how you have been feeling lately, let me say that you are always deserving…

The Making of a Pearl.

I remember sharing with you that I don’t do new year resolutions. My word of the year is what is going to take me through the year. It will help me to remember my “why” and get me back on track when I fall short of what I want for myself. I know that this…

How to Choose Your Word of the Year

Wow, here we are at the close of another year! This one seems to have gone faster than the one before! So much has happened that sharing it all in one post would make one’s head explode. I will spare you the details then. All in all, there were many lessons learned, many tears shed…

What Really Matters

We have so many things going on at once, it has made many of us discontent with life. We have this pandemic, wrapped up in the disappointing relationships,  job woes, inflation, and other things that are adding to the frustrations of life. I am working on acknowledging all of these things, taking a deep breath,…

Stand In Your Superpower

We all have a superpower. Yes, even you! I really believe that we all do. Every single one of us. We all have been given gifts that are unique to us. I sometimes feel like mine can be a gift and a curse at times. What about you? Getting over that feeling will help you…

Seriously, Am I Not “People” Too?

When you say that you are a people pleaser,  are you speaking about yourself as well? It is nice to be there for people and be someone that others can count on but not to your detriment. People pleasing has been frustrating and hurtful for me. when it comes to people pleasing though, Am I…