Sometimes I wonder what people are thinking. They see you working hard to take care of yourself and your business, claim they are your best/good friend, yet they do not support you. They know your occupation, yet they seek their needs outside of you. If you see a person trying to build and do something positive, why not support them? Especially if you are someone that they call a friend, prove yourself. What do you think of these people? Do you think they may be jealous of your success, great or small, and that is why they look the other way as you climb the ladder? I do not like to see things like that. Everyone has different gifts. Just because you are not successful in your lane right now does not mean that you should not support a friend. If you call yourself a friend, you should be first in line to support them. You should be shouting to everyone you know about what they are doing and get some more support for them, you know they would do the same for you. That is definitely something I hate to see between women. Support your girl/boy in her/his endeavors. Yes, she might be more beautiful to others, or he is sporting a more muscular physique… Or they have more education but you have your beauty and success and you need to be confident in what you are working with. Nothing uglier than a man/woman who does not even know someone saying, “I don’t like her or him, I don’t know why, its just a feeling.” I know what it is…the green-eyed monster!!!!! You do not know what it took for that man/woman to get that body, those clothes, hair, beauty or whatever it is. Drive in your lane, get YOU right so you can stand in the presence of other great women/men and still be feeling yourself…..
I am a Master Cosmetologist and mom of 3 boys that make me crazy and extra in love with them every day. We are a military family so we have lived in various places across the United States so we have made and lost friends along the way but have grown closer to one another through it all. As I've grown, I've learned so much about myself and I am learning that I cannot help anyone if I'm not working on being whole myself. I love being a woman... don't always love going through " woman" things. Through it all, I continue to fall more in love with myself and my growth and I love to share my story with other woman, if only to inspire and encourage one. View All Posts